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Parent – October 2020
The bank holiday gave us all a chance to drop what we were working on and spend time together as a family. We managed to go for a walk, but this time, somewhere different! A change is as good as a rest, as they say. Chatting to close friends, who I have not seen for a significant period of time, was, quite frankly, exhilarating! To find out that my social skills still (largely) function was reassuring.
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Researcher of the Month
Dr Jerica Radez, Trainee Clinical Psychologist at The Oxford Institute of Clinical Psychology Training and Research
University of Oxford
Dr Radez is a first-year trainee clinical psychologist with an interest in adolescent mental health. Her PhD focused on understanding and overcoming barriers to seeking professional help for teens with anxiety and depressive disorders. She is now working on early intervention in psychosis in adolescents.
Anxiety and depressive disorders are the most common mental health problems in adolescents, yet only a minority of the young people affected access professional help. Dr Jerica Radez and colleagues undertook a qualitative study with teens in UK secondary schools to find out what they perceive to be barriers to help-seeking, and what would encourage them to do so.
After conducting school-based screening of 1200 11-17 year olds, 22 teens who met diagnostic criteria for anxiety or depression were interviewed by Dr Radez. The team identified four main reasons why teens are not very likely to access professional help: (1) Teens find it hard to make sense of their difficulties, (2) they find it problematic to communicate about their mental health, (3) they don’t always want to seek help and often feel a need to solve problems independently and (4) despite this adolescent desire for autonomy, they need assistance from school and parents to seek help, which is not always there.
Implications for parents – The teens in the project said that regular, unpressured chats about how they are feeling would be beneficial. Parents should seek to learn more about what behaviours are cause for concern and should normalise help-seeking in family life. Parents should familiarise themselves with where to get help and discuss options with their teen.
Implications for schools – Schools need to ensure that all staff are aware of red flags for anxiety or depression in pupils. It’s important that clear pathways are in place for help-seeking and schools should normalise the need for help.
Implications for GPs – Dr Radez’s simple screening tool, just published this month, is specifically designed to screen for anxiety and depression in teens, quickly. GPs may find this useful when assessing teenagers.
Our Clinical Partners
We take pride in working in close collaboration with some outstanding clinical professionals who are leaders in their fields. We only signpost parents and carers to those that share our commitment to evidence-based approaches.
Mrs Pauline Riley-Hunte
Consultant Chartered Clinical and Child Psychologist.
Associate Fellow with the British Psychological Society (BPS), a ‘Registered Psychologist’ with the UK Health Care Professions Council ( HCPC) and a certified member of the Allied Paramedical Board, Barbados.
Mr Will Napier
Chartered Counselling Psychologist (C Psychol)
Chartered Counselling Psychologist (C Psychol), Post-Masters Certificate in Counselling Psychology (PGCert Couns Psych), Masters Degree in Counselling Psychology (MSc, Couns. Psych), Cognitive Science (First Class) (BSc Hons) and Theology MA (First Class, Oxford University)
Tooled Up News
At Tooled Up Towers, we have what Carole Dweck would call a ‘growth mindset’; we aren’t afraid to learn, grow and persevere. That is why we reach out and seek as much collaboration as possible with like-minded individuals or organisations who, like us, are absolutely passionate about improving children’s life outcomes.
This week, Professor Stephen Scott, an eminent British consultant psychiatrist, wrote an article to fellow psychologists and medics, which talks about the importance of paying attention to children’s general mental health, sooner in life, rather than later. “What is the point of being physically well if we are miserable and don’t have a good life?” he asks.
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