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Following a Suicide or Sudden Death
To mark World Suicide Prevention Day on Saturday 10th September, we are proud to have published a resource for schools, written in collaboration with suicide prevention charity, The OLLIE Foundation. This comprehensive guide will provide leadership teams in schools and other educational settings with the detailed guidance needed to coordinate an appropriate, helpful and safe response following the tragic event of a suicide or sudden death in their community.
This invaluable resource is available for free. Simply click the button below to view and download the PDF.
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Schools that are part of our Tooled Up Education community can provide their parents and teachers with access to Dr Weston’s exclusive resources, covering areas such as aspiration, resilience, mental health and behaviour.
As a member of the Tooled Up community you will have access to a whole host of evidence-based resources, which will enable you to support your children or students in a way that makes their lives and educational journeys both easier and more enjoyable.
Dr Weston's Wednesday Wisdom
In an ever increasingly busy and demanding world, Wednesday Wisdom provides a reflective 2 minute read every week that readers constantly tell us they look forward to. Full of topical and relatable experiences that help provide reflection, motivation and support in achieving a balanced family life.
Over the years, thousands of people have benefitted from, and continue to enjoy, the parenting and educational talks from Dr Kathy Weston at Tooled Up Education and have subscribed to Wednesday Wisdom. Join now for free to get your own weekly digest of motivating, interesting, and thoughtful parenting advice from Dr Weston herself.
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Toll on Teachers
Like many of us working in the field of education or working in schools in the UK, I have been reflecting with deep sadness about the death of headteacher Ruth Perry this week. Discussion of her passing has involved an understanding that she was under intense pressure having had her work leading a school scrutinised by an external inspection body.
Parenting Question of the Week
I’m a single mum with a 12 year old boy. How do I address the topic of hormones, changes to body and give my son comfort, so that even though I’m not his father, he can still come to me to talk, discuss and emote? I want him to feel open and willing but also appreciate this is probably something he would naturally go to his dad for.
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Researcher of the Month
Dr Shana Carpenter, Professor of Cognitive Psychology at Iowa State University.
Professor Carpenter’s research primarily focuses on cognitive science principles that can be applied in educational settings to help students remember information, transfer what they have learned to new situations, and improve their awareness of their own learning.
The benefits of spacing and retrieval practice have been confirmed repeatedly in studies from numerous different contexts. Spacing is a way of scheduling learning activities over time. Research shows that repeated learning opportunities that are spaced apart in time are more effective than the same number of learning opportunities occurring closer together. Retrieval practice involves recalling information that has been learned previously. The simple act of retrieving something from the brain, without any helpful cues, strengthens learning and makes memories more durable over time. Retrieval activities can take many forms, including flash cards, practice tests and open-ended writing prompts, all of which helps students to recognise what they do and don’t know.
The study showed that, instead of adopting these practices, students tend to use other, less effective strategies when learning. Professor Carpenter notes that it’s important for young people to gain an understanding of when and how to engage in learning and what strategies will prove most impactful.
Teachers should help students understand the benefits of spacing and retrieval practices, and metacognitive skills. When using spacing in class, expect children to forget some information between sessions. Be patient, provide practice exercises on material already learned and give feedback on the things that your students are and aren’t remembering. If teaching topic by topic, try to insert some learning material or practice exercises on information/topics that have been taught at an earlier time. Regularly provide concrete activities that help young people implement retrieval. For example, why not ask them to reflect on their learning after each class through a simple practice question or two? Don’t grade the responses, but do give helpful feedback.
At home, nudge teens to map out revision timetables, encourage them to schedule spaced practice on specific topics and suggest that they revisit and re-practise things that have already been learned. Test them on their learning and support them in working out what they know and what they don’t. Cultivate a culture that values mistakes, views errors as essential to learning and relishes challenge. If you want to learn more about normalising mistakes in family life, read our article.
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A Few of Our Favourite Things
Sometimes, a sense of excitement builds at Tooled Up Towers when we discover some hidden gems buried in the research papers that we come across in our work. Sometimes, we shop in bookshops, attend talks or see things when out and about that we really want to tell our families
Happy International Women’s Day
It’s International Women’s Day today. This year’s theme is #EmbraceEquity. International Women’s Day has devised a number of missions to help forge a gender equal world and note that celebrating women’s achievements and increasing visibility, while calling out inequality, is key. These are things we are passionate about at Tooled Up, and for Tooled Up subscribers, we have plenty in the library to help break down stereotypes and raise awareness of some remarkable women.
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